There's something interesting happening in this dichotomy between black men and black women, where it is an immediate animus upon meeting each other. What are you trying to take from me ? What is it you're going to give to me even these terms, like how high value man, high value woman, and that kind of toxic thinking has penetrated our politics in a way. Yeah, where, if you are doing a tantrum in the voting booth again because of something that you are dealing with personally, and look, I didn't been killed. Okay, I'm wrong, but my black man, I'm probably, you know, popped off at the mouth and the two black men in ways I shouldn't have. I'm not taking. I can still consider the greater good in my policy and then my politics. And it doesn't seem like that exists always. So I'm not putting brothers down. But I do believe we have righteous frustrations that need to be addressed. And I think it's a family conversation, not one to have on around table. Um, and in front of folk who ain't kinfolk share, believe, inspire blacks be.