No matter how much you slave away for a man, he still will not marry you if he doesn't want to.
Courtship is not the season for wifey duties, my sisters. It’s the season to observe, discern, and pay rapt attention to the person you’re considering for marriage.
Don’t start washing his clothes, washing his plates, or sleeping with him. You go lose. Simple.
One major reason some men end up walking away is because they’ve already seen you finish. There’s nothing left to look forward to in marriage.
He has slept with you countless times. You’ve turned yourself into his mother, cooking, cleaning, and over-functioning.
Things that should be reserved for marriage.
Remove these things from your relationship if you truly want to see clearly.
You’re not married until you’re married. Certain rites are for marriage, not relationship.
And as for those men who will rush under this post to say, “Your gender too should not ask us for money”, mark their faces and avoid them.
This is not about money. It’s about their whack mindset that relationship is trade by barter. #michaelosita
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Courtship is not the season for wifey duties, my sisters. It’s the season to observe, discern, and pay rapt attention to the person you’re considering for marriage.
Don’t start washing his clothes, washing his plates, or sleeping with him. You go lose. Simple.
One major reason some men end up walking away is because they’ve already seen you finish. There’s nothing left to look forward to in marriage.
He has slept with you countless times. You’ve turned yourself into his mother, cooking, cleaning, and over-functioning.
Things that should be reserved for marriage.
Remove these things from your relationship if you truly want to see clearly.
You’re not married until you’re married. Certain rites are for marriage, not relationship.
And as for those men who will rush under this post to say, “Your gender too should not ask us for money”, mark their faces and avoid them.
This is not about money. It’s about their whack mindset that relationship is trade by barter. #michaelosita
Have you follow me and react on my post ? Please do follow me if you haven't 🙏.
