When the relationship started, you both agreed to get married within one year or at most two years.
Now it’s the fourth year of the relationship.
I can relate.
In most cases, this usually happens for two major reasons:
1. Too many unresolved conflicts
2. Insufficient funds to start the marriage
If yours is constant/unresolved conflicts, you need help. Seek guidance from a professional coach or counselor.
Have a deep, honest conversation with your partner. This conversation must be intentional.
Leave emotions aside and address the real issues holding you back.
After that discussion, make a decision. Be intentional and move the relationship forward or break up peacefully.
Many people don’t like to hear the word breakup because they’re in love. But sometimes, breakup is the deliverance you need. It can be the forward you’ve been praying for.
If the issue is finance, sit down together and plan wisely.
Ask yourselves... What can we afford to start our marriage?
Stop comparing yourselves to others. You don’t have to have the kind of wedding they had.
The most important parts of the ceremony are:
Your parents’ approval
Your pastor’s blessing
A legal backing
Do what you can afford. Marry and start your married life.
There’s no award for long courtship. If anything, the disadvantages are more than the advantages.
Marry and move forward. #michaelosita
Now it’s the fourth year of the relationship.
I can relate.
In most cases, this usually happens for two major reasons:
1. Too many unresolved conflicts
2. Insufficient funds to start the marriage
If yours is constant/unresolved conflicts, you need help. Seek guidance from a professional coach or counselor.
Have a deep, honest conversation with your partner. This conversation must be intentional.
Leave emotions aside and address the real issues holding you back.
After that discussion, make a decision. Be intentional and move the relationship forward or break up peacefully.
Many people don’t like to hear the word breakup because they’re in love. But sometimes, breakup is the deliverance you need. It can be the forward you’ve been praying for.
If the issue is finance, sit down together and plan wisely.
Ask yourselves... What can we afford to start our marriage?
Stop comparing yourselves to others. You don’t have to have the kind of wedding they had.
The most important parts of the ceremony are:
Your parents’ approval
Your pastor’s blessing
A legal backing
Do what you can afford. Marry and start your married life.
There’s no award for long courtship. If anything, the disadvantages are more than the advantages.
Marry and move forward. #michaelosita
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